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CREATIVITY ZONE: (full story)
Make Time Work For You! ...
One of the challenges we all face is, Time.
There just doesn’t seem to be enough of it, does
there? For all we want to do, where we want to
go, who we want to see … “Life is too short,”
we’re inclined to say.
This conundrum is especially frustrating when we
really need to do something and can’t find the
time to squeeze it in to our schedule that is
already packed with paperwork, meetings,
after-school activities, more meetings, dinners
with friends and associates and everyday
life-stuff that needs to get done. “There’s just
no time!” we scream.
So, how do you make time work for you instead of
against you?
Time Is Elastic
Well, first of all, you need to remember that
time is a notion; it’s an agreed-upon concept of
reality. Look at every timepiece wherever you
are right now. Do they all read exactly the same
time? Hmmm, probably not. In reality, time is
relative. It’s elastic. And, you can bend it and
stretch it to suit your needs. Time is one of
those parameters in life that you can view as a
hard line of logic that restricts you, or as a
dotted line of creativity you can use to empower
yourself.
The logical way to approach such a fixed reality
as time would be to add. To just squeeze another
activity into the fixed, 24/7 cycle of your
life. But there’s a more effective way—the
logical creative way--to accomplish the same
result, and with less stress. Rather than
squeezing and cramming the activity into your
already-crammed schedule, you collapse the
parameters of Time by including the activity in
your day, in your life.
Now, this is not just a play on words. It is a
complete shift in perception. Instead of seeing
whatever it is you want to find Time for as an
“add-on” to your life, you deem it already
included, as part of your life. Just like
brushing your teeth is included in your hurried
morning ritual. If you were really rushed one
day, would you say, “I just don’t have time to
brush my teeth this morning”? I don’t think so.
By declaring it included, it is no longer an
option for you to choose to brush your teeth, or
whatever the activity is. It is assumed that you
will do it. Of course, the change in perception
will require an adjustment of your schedule to
accommodate the new activity, but that’s just a
matter of details and choosing priorities. Done.
Welcome to the logical creative management of
your life.
The power of this approach is that the shift in
perception affects not only the physical
rearrangement of your schedule and the
always-needed review of your priorities, but it
occurs internally, as well. By declaring that
you are including an activity, you alert your
creative self and unleash your creative power to
find the time to pursue whatever it is you’ve
just included in your life.
Here’s how it works:
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Decide.
Determine what you want to be doing that you
are not and prepare to include it in your
schedule.
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Declare.
Say to yourself—out loud--that you are
including the activity in your schedule. The
power of this step is that there is no
longer a choice in the matter. There’s no
longer any question whether or not you will
take on this activity. You already have.
What’s more, the struggle and angst are
removed about how you were going to manage
this. There’s no more “trying” and being
disappointed that you weren’t able to get it
done, as you are now afforded a brand new,
realistic view of your priorities.
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Discover.
Now the adventure begins, as you trust your
creativity to do its work. There’s nothing
for you to do now except to be alert to
opportunities that your creative self
presents to you for engaging in the new,
included activity.
Have Fun With It
So, let’s say you want to exercise more than you
already do, but there’s just no time. You’re
already booked to the max. So, you decide that
you want to exercise more. Then, you declare it
included in your life. You’re not really sure
how this will happen, but you trust your
creativity to help make it happen and are
prepared to discover this.
So, next day, you find yourself riding the
elevator to work or to some other meeting.
You’re standing there, counting the floors or
thinking of the millions of things you’ll do
when you hit your desk. Suddenly, with your new
creative awareness, you see an opportunity to
begin curling (lifting, with just your wrist and
bicep) your briefcase or handbag or any package.
You do this for the rest of the ride up and
determine to do it on the way down as well.
Then, next day, you realize that you could get
off the elevator a floor or two early and walk
the rest of the way. Then, you discover ways to
exercise even while sitting at your desk or on
the phone (pacing while on the phone works
well). It’s fun to see how this happens.
Or, let’s say you want to find more leads to
build your real-estate practice, but you just
can’t add in any more conferences or other
events to your schedule. Don’t add, include.
Decide that finding more leads will be an
activity that you will pursue. Declare that it
is now included in your schedule. Allow your
creativity to find the ways to make it happen
and discover them. Perhaps you will meet someone
you can hire to attend these events for you.
Give them a pocketful of business cards, a
briefing on your business and what you’re
looking for and give them a percentage of each
deal that turns out. You can even hire people in
other cities.
The point is that by collapsing the parameters
of limitations (like, Time), you will see your
business and your whole life in new ways. By
including rather than adding, you will empower
yourself by what Stewart Emery refers to as “the
genius of ‘and’ rather than the tyranny of
‘or’.” In effect, you are expanding time. Doing
so, you automatically increase your wealth
because you are investing in and benefiting from
the most valuable asset of all: Time.
I invite you to change your perception this
month. Consider the things to do and people to
see that you have wanted to add to your
schedule. Decide to include one of them, declare
it done and discover how your creativity makes
it happen.
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